“I Heard You. You Meant It. Now It’s My Turn.”
“I Heard You. You Meant It. Now It’s My Turn.” I recently came across a LinkedIn post from a colleague, Chris Ortega —someone I consider both a mentor and an inspiring thought leader. It was a simple selfie pic, but it stopped me in my tracks. The image spoke to me clearly and deeply: “I heard you. You meant it. Now it’s my turn.” At first glance, it almost feels transactional—like a back-and-forth, a passing of the baton. But the more I sat with it, the more I realized it holds a profound truth about how we move through the world—through conflict, through conversation, and through our interactions with others. Because so much of life isn’t actually about what’s said—it’s about what we choose to do next. We all have moments where someone says something that lands wrong. Maybe it’s unfair. Maybe it’s hurtful. Maybe it’s simply misaligned with who we are. And in those moments, our instinct is often immediate: defend, correct, react, prove. But what if we paused? What if we allowe...